HK here we go!

I traveled for the very first time with Zack minus Daddy to Hong Kong for my cousin’s wedding. My parents were with me so i did have an extra hand, but it was a really challenging trip having to watch the kiddo without David’s help.

We flew on Cathay Pacific and Zack has his own seat as he has just turned two. I must say the airline is very kid friendly, they have special menus for little ones, and what i really liked was that they even had an activity box for children to occupy themselves with during the 3.5 hour flight.

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This was an easier one for me having endured a long haul flight before; i knew what to expect, and Zack was also surprisingly quite well mannered throughout the journey. We even managed to sneak in a short nap which allowed me time to have my meal in peace.

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It was a really short trip, and we spent most of our time with our relatives. We were after all attending a wedding! There was the pre-wedding dinner which is similar to how we host a buffet party–but due to their lack of space they usually host it at a restaurant. There’s a lot of culture that the Chinese in Hong Kong still follow, including the combing of the hair and also prayers to the ancestors the night before the wedding.

On the morning of the wedding it was a typical sight to what we are used to–the groom arrives to greet her bride, but is instead greeted by her ji muis who put the groom and his heng dais through a series of games and “torture”. It was amusing to see the similarities in the tradition and culture that i’m familiar with here in Malaysia.

What i wasn’t too used to  was the size of property in Hong Kong. My uncle and aunt live in a 4 bedroom, 1200 sqf apartment in Mid Levels. It is said to be an exceptionally large space to be living in, but it was a claustrophobic experience for me with 50 odd people in the house during the jip san leong.

Even our hotel room in Wanchai was so cramped, there wasn’t even space for a regular sized cot. There was barely any space for our luggage; it seemed like they made sure they fully utilised every little space possible! It’s no wonder the price of property on the Island is sky high….

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With my Hongkee cousins at the dinner reception in Mongkok

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Zack occupying himself with iPad! Thank God for iPad! (he just refused to sit with us at the table the whole nite…until dessert was served -_-”)

The wedding dinner was hosted in Mongkok, which is in Kowloon. We had to take the MTR as most taxis aren’t keen on driving across Tsing Ma bridge as it will cost them extra for the toll as well as the limited likelihood of any passengers wanting to cross over from Kowloon to Island. Having gone sightseeing over the last 2 days with multiple modes of public transportation, I’ve concluded that Hong Kong isn’t a very baby friendly city, due to a few factors:

1. The terrain is very challenging, there are too many hills and slopes making it a lot of steps to go up and go down from one street to the other.

2. Most sidewalks (particularly observed in the Wanchai and Central areas) are not disabled or stroller friendly. They are not covered as well so when it rains…. you have no where to run to!

3.Public transportation is a plenty but strollers are not very easy to maneuver when attempting to get on the MTR, the electric trams or the buses. MTR stations are not very disabled friendly as there is a lack of lifts, and some stations don’t even have escalators. Electric trams have an entry and exit barrier to manage flow of passengers getting on and off, which makes carrying the stroller on board very, very challenging. Taxi drivers are more courteous and it’s likely the best mode of transport when traveling with kids in the Island.

Nevertheless, I had a lot of fun hanging out with Zack. Even managed to get our Nespresso machine, did some shopping, ate alot—I was surprised with the amount of energy i had on this trip! We even managed to galavant around Wanchai and got caught in a rather…heavy shower. Poor Zack was half drenched–poor me was fully drenched! I think the next time we go back to HK we would just focus on Disneyland!

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Zack with Po Po and Kong Kong at Hong Kong Park

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Someone’s cranky…

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Hong Kong Park has a REALLY big playground for toddlers and older kids. Really a must go place — esp if you wanna tire the kids out!

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Getting ready to go back to KL!

Trip down under

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In February we spent 2 weeks in Melbourne, Australia on our first long distance holiday with Zack. It was 30% work and 70% leisure for me as I had to manage a trade conference in the city for 4 days.

Traveling with a toddler who is not eligible for a seat on the plane is a huge disadvantage. Yes, we saved money on his air ticket, but he was too big for a bassinet, and too uncomfortable sitting on our lap for the 8 hour flight. He also wasn’t at his 100%, which made the trip going rather challenging for both David and I. We both barely got any sleep, juggling Zack between the both of us, and trying to keep him as comfortable as possible. We were so exhausted

After a tiring 8 hours flying, we arrived on a very windy morning into Melbourne airport and our good friends Joanie and Gavin played host during our entire stay. This city has always had a special place in our hearts as this is where I met my husband David we have since been (and still on) one of the best journeys together.

We had the first 2 days for leisurely activities and we signed up for a Yarra River cruise. Even though we’ve both lived in Melbourne before during our uni days, we’ve never really done any of the touristy activities–so we thought hey, never too late to go now!

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We also had time to wander around St Kilda beach, and little Zack just couldn’t stop chasing after the seagulls!

During the 4 days I had to be in the city for work, we moved out of Joanie and Gav’s place and moved into the Intercon. Zack took over our bed:

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We took the opportunity to hangout in the city, including a trip to the Melbourne Zoo, and some of the lovely playgrounds in the CBD.

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We headed back to St Kilda beach again and had a superb seafood dinner at Claypots too. David even brought Zack to Richmond’s Ikea! We also got our Chinese food fix in good ol’ Chinatown. On our last nite at the Intercon we had time to head over to Queen Vic market for the annual Suzuki Night Market where we got our hands on some roo and croc. Wouldn’t say it was great and wouldn’t say it was bad. Ok ok lah. The gelato was heaven on earth tho!

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Our last day in the CBD we concluded with some massive cocoa overdose at Kokoblack before moving back to Joanie and Gav’s crib in Mitcham.

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The weekend came and we road tripped up to Mount Dandenong on a rainy Saturday morning for scones at Miss Marples Tea Room. One word can only describe Miss Marples–fabuloso. It’s such a lovely quaint little cafe with the best scones i’ve ever had in my life. Ok maybe cos i haven’t had much scones in my life but Miss Marples’ scones are the bomb. Really.

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Sunday. Yum Cha day. We headed back into the city for some mean dim sum @ Shark Fin Inn with Joanie and Gav. Somehow this trip is turning into an eating fest. (And it was because at the end of the trip i had gained weight!)

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On Valentine’s Day, armed with Joanie’s trusty GPS and driving Gav’s car we road tripped down to Mornington to check out the Moonlit Wildlife Sanctuary. Boy oh boy, this was an even better encounter with the animals as compared with the time we spent at Melbourne Zoo. Zack got to feed the wallabies (which i was so terrified of!) and we even saw a couple of koala bears real close. There were lots of kangaroos lazing around and we were able to get really close to them. Zack the brave boy even touched a snake!

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We continued our drive around wine country and headed up to Arthur’s Seat for a view of the countryside. Last stop on the road trip was to Sunny Ridge Strawberry farm for a super sundae. I also picked up some really juicy strawberries which i transformed into yummy chocolate dipped strawberries shared with Joanie and Gav for our post dinner snack.

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We also took some time to do some shopping and catch up with old friends. All in all we had a great time and we can’t wait to go back again!

Thanks Joanie and Gavin for having us and taking good care of us during our time there. Greatest and bestest pals evarrrrrr!

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(In front of Joanie and Gav’s crib)

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(On our way back there was a vacant seat so Zack got his own space = more comfort for him and mommy and daddy!)

 

NEXT TRIP: Mommy’s solo trip with Zack to HK

First solo holiday with Zack

Our trip to Langkawi was an alternative to our originally planned trip to Bangkok in November last year. Due to the heavy rain and flooding, we had no choice but to reconsider another location for our first family vacation.

Thankfully, the air tickets that we bought with Malaysia Airlines had allowed us flexibility in changing the route for passengers affected with the flood situation in Thailand. We decided on Langkawi as it was a place I haven’t been to since i was a little girl and also we’d thought it be fun for Zack to go to the beach and play with the sand and swim in the sea.

Packing for the trip was a bit easier, especially now that Zack can eat whatever we eat. I’m still guilty of overpacking his clothes and other not-so-necessary necessities. We also brought along a bucket and a set of shovels so we could have fun on the beach.

We arrived and rented a car for our time on the island. Having a car definitely made it much easier to commute with a kiddo in tow! We checked into our hotel, took some time to decide what we wanted to do over the next 2 days.

One thing i’ve learnt about vacationing with a kid is that–you can never plan too many things far in advance. We tried our best to make our plans around Zack’s meal times and nap times. We also learnt that vacationing with a kid also makes u so exhausted that u need a vacation after that vacation!

All in all we had a great time in Langkawi. We got on the cable car, went car-sightseeing around the island, did some duty free shopping, spent time at the pool, strolled by the beach. One thing we didn’t expect was that Zack totally hated the sand. He didn’t even want to walk on the sand with his sandals on. It was that bad. I hope this is just a phase and that he’ll get pass that soon enough.

Some pics from our trip:
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Pool time with Daddy

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What a great view from up here

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Exploring around the hotel premise

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No way he’s putting his feet on the sand!

17 months

Hanging tough

Life is ToughPhoto credit to allthewhile on Flickr

Growing up I always hear people using this phrase – “Life is tough”. I am guilty of using it sometimes too during my teenage years, you know-lah, all the pressures in school, getting sucky grades, trying to be cool and what not. Then my parents will taruk me and say that we’ll know how it’s like to be an adult when it is time for us to be an adult; apparently that’s when life gets really tough.

Oh well, in another 5 weeks, I’m going to be 30 years old.

I wouldn’t say life is tough (not for me to say anyway considering how blessed we are compared to the less fortunate) but I would say my life has had a variety of challenges. For one, being a parent is tough. Taking care of the little one has been a challenge from day 1; particularly challenging when the kiddo is unwell.

The first time Zack caught the bug from my Mom, we didn’t know what to do. We were on a short getaway on Valentine’s day and we were staying the night at a hotel in KL. He got up in the middle of the night crying and I felt he was really burning up. I didn’t pack the thermometer with me, and I didn’t have any fever medication with me. We were panicking not knowing what to do, immediately packed up our things, checked out of the hotel at 2am, decided to drive straight to the hospital!! Halfway on our way to SDMC, we took some time to think about it and we decided to head back home to get him temperature taken first, give him some meds and then see how goes.

We got home, Zack took his meds, temperature went down, he was sleeping again. The next day we brought him to the doctor’s, found out it was the usual sore throat/flu bug, got some meds and he was on his way back to his normal self soon after.

Lesson number 1: Don’t panic, think of an action plan, and think of an alternative to the action plan. Oh, and always pack the thermometer and meds on trips.

Second time around, Zack caught the bug again, this time from David. He was cranky, crying non-stop, and just burning up quick. Every time his temperature hits the highs of 39.5°C and above, I go into a panic mode and can’t think straight. His endless crying prompted us to pack up his stuff, and head over to SDMC. I remember it was 3am-ish and we were driving halfway to the hospital, when Zack just stopped crying and started smiling at us. His temperature went down and we made a u-turn back home.

Lesson number 2: Remind self to not panic. Don’t co-sleep when one is sick. Always wait for the meds to kick in before panicking. And try other methods of bringing the fever down i.e. sponging

Third time around, we got another surprise. After our holiday in Singapore recently, Zack had very high fever that comes and goes, even after taking paracetamol. However, he was pretty much his usual self, eating his meals, drinking his milk, playing his toys. He only got cranky when the fever returned. Having learnt from previous occasions, we monitored his fever closely, sponged him, and kept him hydrated as much as we could.

Again, his fever spiked up and this time it was over 40°C!! Panic mode jumped in and being a weekend, our usual ped is closed, hence a regular GP was all we could consult. The GP mentioned that Zack’s throat was very inflammed, instructed us to immediately start Zack on Augmentin, a brand of antibiotics which is commonly prescribed to children and adults alike. I take Augmentin too, so I knew it was an effective antibiotics. We had some qualms about giving Zack antibiotics but we trusted the GP and gave it to him anyway. Giving meds to Zack was another challenge—we literally had to pin him down and restrain him to get him to eat the meds. So heart-breaking to see the little one struggling at every feed.

Two days after the antibiotics, a rash broke out on his chest, back and stomach and again we panicked, we brought him to see our usual ped who then diagnosed it as Roseola (in chinese refered to as fake measles). She also said that the fever will not come back anymore and we were to expect the rash to disappear in a couple of days. Our ped also told us to chuck the Augmentin, as Roseola is a virus and not a bacterial infection, hence the antibiotics is not required.

The ped was right and sure enough his fever was finally gone, and his rash disappeared but reappeared the next day this time on his arms and legs!!

Now, being a first time parent we just assumed his Roseola attack is probably taking longer than expected. Time passed and it’s been almost 10 days since his fever started, 8 days since has his first dose of Augmentin, 5 days since seeing the ped, 4 days since the rash disappeared and reappeared on the other part of his body.

He was scratching badly, and it didn’t seem like it was Roseola anymore. The rash was raised, reddish pink and was making him really uncomfortable. At one point it covered all of his legs and hands and cheeks!! Off again we saw the ped and *drumroll* it wasn’t Roseola anymore!! We finally found out that Zack is allergic to amoxicillin, a type of penicillin in Augmentin. An allergy to Augmentin apparently only appears 7-10 days after first consuming it!! I am allergic to ampicillin (which is closely related to amoxicillin) as a kid, so it was likely Zack may be allergic to it too. We found out the hard way

Lesson number 3: It’s a fact. Your kid will continue to be exposed to a host of other problems which is new and foreign to you.

Tough. It was so tough on David and I. Not only we were being judged by our own parents (that we suck at parenting), we were also suffering from the lack of sleep and rest in the last 2 weeks! It was so mentally and physically challenging to the point I couldn’t focus at work—I was constantly worried about Zack! The lack of rest made me really cranky too!

I know there’s more to come. I know that there is no way we can outsource parenting just to “have it easy”. I know Zack will always be depending on us to take care of him. I know we can learn from these experiences and grow from it.

So, is life that tough? I would say “a very small part of it, yes. The biggest part of it, no.”

The bigger part of life is just a journey of challenges that we need to confront and overcome as we experience the growing up process. So, hang tough fellow young parents, let’s keep learning and keep growing!

16 months

15 months

14 months

Mama’s essentials – How to prepare porridge for baby

When it was time to introduce Zack to rice porridge, I was researching for ways to prepare this typical Asian baby staple for my little one. I tried out a few of the recipes found on the web, and after some tweaking and perfecting; I’m happy to share with all moms (and grandmoms) my fail proof method of cooking yummy porridge for your baby or toddler.

Preparing porridge in small quantities

When Zack familiarised himself with eating instant rice cereal, it was about time he was introduced to the real deal. At 7 months old he still couldn’t eat much, hence the real challenge here was to cook small portions of porridge without it getting burnt.

I first tried a method I picked up from another mom blogger, which was to wash the rice grains, dry it in a slow oven, ground it to powder form, and then cook it for 15-20 minutes stirring over low heat with a small amount of water. Although this may seem like the fastest way to make porridge, it didn’t give the sort of texture I was looking for. It looked and felt like really thick glue!

I continued to look for alternative means of preparing porridge in small quantities, and my mom suggested that I use a ceramic mug that’s meant for double boiling. With the help of this website, I used the recommended ratio of 1 portion of rice to 8 portions of water to get a pretty good consistency.

My mom also shared with me an important step when double boiling – I needed to ensure that I used hot, boiled water in both the crock pot and the ceramic mug. This step is essential in order to start the cooking process immediately as a slow cooker tends to take a longer time to come to a boil.  The water should cover the ceramic mug up to 80% of the way. This makes sure there is even distribution of heat (and cooking power) inside the mug.

Now, I’m using a slow cooker instead of a pot over a gas stove for 2 reasons. With the slow cooker, the heat is more even and constant, and because it does not come to a continuous boil, the ceramic mug does not need to be held in place with a towel / wire rack. Secondly, the slow cooker can be hooked up to a timer, making it an easy and safe way to prepare porridge. When cooking over the gas stove I noticed that when set at the lowest heat, the water still comes to a ferocious boil, making my ceramic mug “dance” around. I also very often have to replenish the water it is immersed in as it evaporates quite a lot.

Tip:

  • Try to keep water level at 70% if cooking over gas. You never know when water may seep into your ceramic mug, esp if it is bubbling constantly. If you have to you may use aluminium foil to cover the mug before closing the lid.
  • Cooking time with slow cooker – approx 3.5 to 4 hours
  • Cooking time over the gas stove at the lowest heat – approx 2 – 2.5 hours

Preparation is key

I am always looking for quick ways to get things done. When it comes to preparing bub’s porridge, I found that preparation is essential to making this mommy duty less of a chore (not that it’s a chore but there are days where I wish there’s some automated porridge maker, lol!). I am an advocate of freezing food—I love to prepare everything in large batches, and keep them stored and frozen in single servings.

For cooking small quantities of porridge, I use ice cube trays and food pots to store soup stocks and pureed vegetables. I use a milk powder scoop to measure the ingredients as I find that it’s a good size, and a pretty handy measuring tool (this is very important when you need to “level” the ingredients to get an accurate quantity). Here are my tried and tested measurements:

1 “milk powder scoop” of rice + 8 “milk powder scoops” of stock + 1 ice cube of pureed vegetable

Alternatively, to save space, you can also use ice cube trays to freeze measured stock (the ones pictured were purchased from Daiso, comes with a lid). I then keep these cubes in Ziploc bags to free up space in the fridge. Here’s the measurement if using stock in cubes:

1 “milk powder scoop” of rice + 3 ice cubes of stock (approx.  8 “milk powder scoops” of stock) + 1 ice cube of pureed vegetable

You can also use ikan bilis powder as an alternative to preparing stock. Simply soak cleaned ikan bilis to get rid of most of the saltiness, bake in the oven until crisp, and then grind into powder form. Add a pinch of this ikan bilis powder to your 8 “milk powder scoops” of plain water. A little goes a long way.

Preparing porridge in larger quantities

As Zack grew older, his appetite (and stomach) also grew bigger. I could now prepare his porridge directly in the slow cooker. All I had to do was simply measure out the ingredients, and put everything into the crock pot before I go to bed. I left it to the timer to switch the power on and off.

Just remember to keep to the tried and tested measurement which is the ratios of 1 portion of grain to 8 portions of water. For Zack, I prepare 2 servings of porridge for his lunch and dinner using the below measurements:

3 “milk powder scoops” of millet + 3 “milk powder scoops” of rice + 2 cubes of vegetables and 1 cube of meat (fish/chicken/pork) + 2 cups of water (approx. 500ml)

This measurement can yield exactly 2 cups of porridge (about 2 regular Chinese rice bowls).

Tip: As I leave all ingredients in the crockpot for 6 hours at room temperature, it is not neccesary to use hot, boiled water as the cooking process will not commence till later. I just use room temperature water. There are some concerns about whether the meat/vege will spoil while immersed in this room temperature water for 6 hours. I can safely say no as the ingredients start off as frozen blocks, plus it does take some time before fully defrosting. The kitchen is also relatively cool at night, hence the crockpot in itself remains cool and insulated until it is time to cook.

Timing is everything

I used my trusty timer (purchased from Ikea) which allowed me to leave my porridge making in auto-cruise.

I set it to start at point “1” every night at about the same time, combine all my ingredients, and let it sit (and soak) until the cooking process begins 6 hours later. I allow the porridge to cook for 4 hours before it switches off automatically.

Choice of ingredients suitable for porridge

You can be creative with the choice of ingredients you put into your bub’s porridge. Just remember the ratio of grains to water is always 1:8 (omg i sound like a broken record already)

Some grains I’ve experimented with are millet, lentils, split pea (dhall), oats and even alphabet pasta. You can substitute white rice with brown rice, and even add grains like quinoa. The combinations are endless!

The quantity of vegetables is also entirely up to you. I personally like to put in a ratio of 2:1 vegetables to meat.

Some vegetables which cook well in porridge include broccoli, pumpkin, carrot, peas, spinach, siew pak choy, cauliflower, potato and sweet potato. For younger babies, remember to pre-cook all vegetables and puree before storing. For older babies who can handle chunks, just chop the vegetables into small pieces and give it a quick mash before serving.

Tip: You can store chopped vegetables in a big Ziploc bags or in ice cube trays. If making into cubes, remember to pour a little water into the ice cube trays to help the vegetables “solidify” or else you’ll be handling a giant mess of vegetable crumbs when trying to remove them from the ice cube tray.

When using pork or chicken, make sure it’s finely minced. My mom helps with chopping it using her trusty cleaver. It has a better texture than working it through a food processor. As for fish, I just keep it sliced, as it’ll flake anyway when cooked. I freeze meat portions in a container, by separating it with cling wrap. You can also portion it out with an ice cube tray. Do whatever that floats your boat.

I hope you have found these tips useful (and helpful!) when preparing porridge for your baby! Happy Cooking!

 

13 months